Facts About Child Abuse RESPONSE.

The facts and percentages about child abuse was very interesting and caught my attention, and not in a very good way. It's insane how much being abused as a child can effect the rest of your life, like to prison inmates. And what really bothers me, which I guess I already knew, kind of, is that kids are mostly all the time abused by people that are close to them and not strangers; how could you do that to your kid, or even a child you know? You could be killing them, or paralyzing them, scarring them for life. The 10 things to do instead abusing a child list that this article gave was amazing, and I thought a really good idea, and adults that abuse children should really take the time to calm down, relax and just think about it, if a child does something that really makes you want to beat them, abuse them, so badly to kill them sometimes. I also think adults should really think about having kids, whether or not to try and have one, or even keep it if it's an accident, maybe consider adoption. Child abuse is wrong, and shouldn't be done. I don't understand how a person could hurt another human being, so little. Kids also need to be brave and be confident that they will make it through and someone will help them, they need to be able to trust somebody else that will do something about it! I think that everybody should watch for the signs that this article gives, about the different kinds of abuse and how to be able to tell, so that they can maybe help somebody, even if they SAY they don't want it.

Facts About Child Abuse NOTES

• 84% of prison inmates were abused as children.

• One in three girls and one in five boys are sexually abused by an adult at some time during childhood. (Most sexual abusers are someone in the family or someone the child knows, not the proverbial stranger with a lollipop.)
• Families with four or more children have higher rates of abuse and neglect, especially if their living conditions are crowded or they live in isolated areas.
• More than 80% of abusers are a parent or someone close to a child. Child abuse is far more likely to occur in the child's home than in a day care center.
• One in thirteen kids with a parent on drugs is physically abused regularly. (Drug and alcohol abuse in the family makes child abuse about twice as likely.)
• One out of ten babies born today are born to mothers who are abusing drugs. Drinking and smoking heavily during pregnancy also endangers the health of unborn children.

What Kids Can Do

Know your rights!!! Nobody, including your parents, can:

• Hit you hard enought to cause an injury.
• Leave you by yourself for a long time.
• Force you or tell you to have any kind of sex with anyone.

Anyone who does any of these things has a problem. They need help!

Don't be afraid to ask for help. Don't believe anybody who says something bad will happen if you talk. Things can only get better than they are.

If you know a kid who is being hurt physically or sexually, call 1-800-4-A-CHILD and talk about it.

Some Signs of Child Abuse

-Emotional

• A child who just doesn't care.
• A child who suffers from depression.
• A child who won't take part in play or school activities.
• A child who is often hostile or aggressive.
• A child with a loss of appetite.
• A child who compulsively overeats.

-Neglect

• Any of the signs above.
• A child who is hungry much of the time.
• A child wandering outdoors unsupervised.
• A child unsuitably dressed for the weather.
• A child who is continually dirty or wearing the same soiled clothes.
• A child who shows up early or stays late at school.

-Physical

• Bruises or welts shaped like an object (belt buckle or electric cord).
• Bruises in unusual places (back, eyes, mouth, buttocks, genital areas, thighs, calves).
• Layers of different colored bruises in the same general area.
• "Sock" or "glove" burns on feet or hands or doughnut shaped burns on buttocks (from forcing the child into hot water).
• Small round burns from cigarettes.
• Burns in the shape of an object (iron, fireplace tool, or heater).
• Rope burns on ankles, wrists, or torso.
• Adult sized bite marks.
• Suspicious fractures (doctors and nurses are trained to recognize these).

-Sexual

• Withdrawal or anti-social attitude.
• Refusal to undress for physical education or sports.
• Exaggerated interest in sex or "acting out" sex with other children.
• Unusually seductive behavior.
• Fear of intimate contact (hugging or sports)
• Torn, stained, or bloodied clothing.

Things To Do Instead of Hurting a Child

1. Take a deep breath. Take a few more. Remember, you are the adult.
2. Close your eyes and imagine you are hearing what your child is about to hear, or receiving the same punishment.
3. Press your lips together and count to 20.
4. Put the child in a "time-out" chair for a number of minutes. The rule is one minute for each year of age.
5. Put yourself in a "time-out" chair. Are you really angry at the child or is it something else.
6. Call a friend to talk about it. If you need to, dial 1-800-4-A-CHILD (National Child Abuse Hotline).
7. If someone can watch the children, go out for a walk.
8. Take a hot bath or splash cold water on your face.
9. Turn on some music. Sing along if you want.
10. Pick up a pencil and write down a list of helpful words, not words that will hurt.
    

How to Handle Abuse Response.

This article I think would be a great help and influence more kids to know that they need to be able to trust adults or call a helpline. Atleast until someone takes actiona nd puts a stop to it. To save themselves, and possibly many more children. Child Abuse, anykind is a very bad thing adn needs to be stopped as soon as possible, like when it starts. It's not okay for any type of person to harm, hurt, abuse a child or anyone in that matter, no matter the reason or who you are. But if a person that is abused, or knows a person being abused I think this is one of many great articles to read and learn more about it, and how to tell someboyd, and why it's so improtant to tell somebody. Child Abuse needs to stop! I wish all adults were adults, guardians, supervisors awere there to help, encouarage, teach, and play with children, not hurt and abuse them!

How to Handle Abuse Notes

*Adults, guardians, supervisors are usually there to help, encouarage, teach, and play with them. Most anyways, some are adults who'd rather hurt and abuse a child.

*Abuse can affect all kinds of kids, no matter where they live, how much money the family has, or who the live with. Parents, stepparents, relatives, babysitters, teachers, coaches, bigger kids are all people who can abuse a child no matter if they are at home, school, child care, church or other religious buildings.

*Abused kids should always tell and talk to a trusted adult immediately, hard or not, child abuse is never okay. Whether children are frightened from what the abuser says, they need to be able to talk to someboyd. If not an adult then 1-800-4-A-CHILD is a helpline for anyone being abused.

*Different types of abuse can be hitting, constant yelling, uncomfortable touching. (1) Physical: hitting hard with hand, or objects such as belts, leaving bruises or cuts. Shaking, choking, pushing, painful grabbing, kicking are physical. (2) Sexual: Touching or making a child touch the abusers "private parts", abusers will most often say keep this a secret. (3) Verbal or Emotional: no touching has to be invloved, just have to yell all the time, calls them mena names, threatens to leave them, give them up, have them adopted, this could make the kid feel bad about themself and unwanted. & (4) Neglect: not giving a child food, clean clothes, beds, no baths, warm blankets, checkups&medicine.

*A few ideas to make it easier for children to be able to tell a trused adult(s) are:

• Talk to a trusted adult in person.
• Talk to a trusted adult on the phone.
• Write a note, an email, or send a letter to the trusted adult.
• Tell someone at school, like a school counselor, school nurse, teacher, or coach.
• Tell a friend's mom or dad.
• Tell someone who answers the phone at a hotline service, such as 1-800-4-A-CHILD.

*The way a kid tells and whom a kid tells will be different depending on the situation. The most important thing is to tell someone — or even several people — until someone takes action to stop the abuse from happening. A kid who tells on an abuser might be helping other kids, too. Some abusers hurt more than one kid.

*It takes a lot of courage to talk about this kind of thing, and sometimes it takes a while to feel strong enough to talk about it. That's OK. Just know that, in the end, telling a safe person is the bravest thing a kid can do. It can feel really good when a kid takes steps to stay safe and protect other kids from getting hurt.